WE ARE GETTING MARRIED!
THE BRIDE
They say you fall in love when you least expect it. That was never going to be me, because I've been expecting to fall in love my entire life. I was expecting to meet Kyle in college, or bump into him on the EL in Chicago while commuting to work. Maybe I would meet him during a game night with friends in Arkansas, or at a local bar in Kansas City. I did NOT expect to meet him (or anyone else) in the middle of a global pandemic, which is probably why our timing worked out the way it did. However it happened, I'm thrilled to call him my partner and grow through life together. Thank you for your love and support as we embark on the most exciting journey yet!
THE GROOM
Sometimes, someone comes into your life so unexpectedly, takes your heart by surprise, and changes your life forever. I've spent many years growing into who I wanted to become. All the while, I was hoping to find my person along the way. Little did I know it would take a global pandemic to pull me from my worldly travels and I would wind up back in Kansas to find Alissa. I am very lucky to call her my partner and travel through space and time together on this big blue marble.
THE STORY
How we met, fell in love, and all that jazz.
WE MATCHED
Kyle's profile said he was attracted to a great smile. Alissa said she was looking for a man who always treated the waitstaff well and was able to laugh at himself. Their first few conversations covered the big stuff (How do you feel about marriage? Religion? Politics? Kids?) and the small stuff (Kyle wanted to know everything about Alissa down to the make and model of her first car). He was excited and came on strong; she was nervous and gun shy. But after being patient with each other, they finally made plans to meet up.
OUR FIRST DATE
Their first date was scheduled for August 27th at 7:00pm at Tavern in the Village. Around 5:30, Alissa went to pick up her puppy from doggy-daycare (right next to the Tavern!) so she texted Kyle that she was at the restaurant, not thinking anything of it, and went home to get ready. Meanwhile, Kyle assumed she was waiting at the restaurant early, so he rushed over to meet her and ended up sitting by himself for over an hour. When she finally arrived (on time!), they joked about the whole thing and had such a good time that they made plans to see each other again that same weekend.
OUR RELATIONSHIP
Kyle and Alissa's relationship grew as the world was closed due to the pandemic. Their dates mainly consisted of long conversations in the living room, cooking dinner with each other, and picnics in the park. With no distractions, deep conversations about separate pasts and shared futures became the norm. Other frequent aspects of their relationship included: Takeout poké bowls, watching every season of Taskmaster on YouTube, Alissa trying to organize Kyle's house, and Kyle performing small repairs on every part of Alissa's apartment/car.
THE PROPOSAL
The wedding photographer (who was booked before the engagement because Alissa is a Type-A planner) reached out to the couple and asked if they would be willing to model for her as she tested out some new camera equipment and worked on a photography mentor assignment - Yes! On April 17th, they dressed up and went to Shawnee Mission Park for their photo session, along with several high-schoolers who were taking prom pictures (this was not part of Kyle's plan). After an hour of picture taking and waiting for the prom couples to clear out, they were alone in the park. Alissa turned around and Kyle was on one knee with the ring. She said yes! Kyle then drove them to dinner and surprised Alissa with both of their families and her best friend, Meghan. He covered the room in white roses and even worked with the bartenders to make 'His & Hers' signature cocktails for the night. It was, thus far, the happiest night of their lives!
WE ARE GETTING MARRIED!
OCT 1, 2022
YOU'RE INVITED
OUR WEDDING
We can't wait to celebrate our beginning with you in Smithville, MO at White Iron Ridge.
TRAVEL & LODDGING
We are excited to have you join us and have secured special group rates for your stay. Please use this link to book your stay at the Kansas City Marriott, which will also provide free transportation to and from our venue.
GETTING THERE
There are several complimentary shuttles to bring you to the festivities and back to the hotel. It is approximately 23 minutes from the hotel to the venue so please plan accordingly!
DEPART- 4:10 P.M. 4:15 P.M. 4:20 P.M.
RETURN- 9:45 P.M. 11:10 P.M. (3 shuttles)
CEREMONY, COCKTAILS, & RECEPTION
We are excited to have you join us at White Iron Ridge in Smithville, MO. The ceremony begins at 5:00 PM, followed by a cocktail hour and reception.
SCHEDULE- 4:20 P.M. — Last shuttle to venue
- 5:00 P.M. — Ceremony
- 5:30 P.M. — Cocktails
- 6:30 P.M. — Reception
- 10:45 P.M. — Last call
- 11:10 P.M. — Last shuttle to hotel
PLACES OF INTEREST
NORTHLAND FAVES
(Near the hotel)
| PIROPOS Argentinian Steakhouse |
| CHICKEN & PICKLE Outdoor bar & pickleball courts |
| 54th STREET BAR & GRILL Great neighborhood spot |
OTHER FAVORITE SPOTS
(Around the metro)
| CAVA Alissa's champagne bar |
| JULEP Kyle's whiskey bar |
| RED DOOR GRILL Kyle & Alissa's neighborhood spot |
GALLERY
GIFT REGISTRY
Your thoughtfulness is enough of a gift for us. If you would like to make a contribution to an experience or a gift as we start our new life together, see below for our registry.
FAQ
YOUR CALENDAR
When is the RSVP Deadline?
When should I arrive and how long should I stay?
YOUR SUITCASE
What should I wear?
Should I bring anything special?
What will the weather be like in Kansas City that time of the year?
YOUR ATTENDANCE
Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?
Do you have a block of rooms reserved?
Can I bring a date (plus one)?
Can I bring my children?
Is parking available at the venue?
YOUR BELLIES
What type of food will be served?
Will you be accommodating any diet restrictions?
Will you have alcohol at the reception?
YOUR PHOTOS
May I take photos during the ceremony?
RSVP
Please let us know if you will be celebrating with us by August 15th, 2022.